More “Secret Influence”
my friend Ruth watched the movie The Secret last week and decided with a friend that they would put the principles into action and visualize something they wanted. I asked if she was going to visualize getting along with her mother, and she said she couldn’t begin to picture that.
In Chapter 7 of How to Use PowerPhrases, I talk about how PowerPhrases are targeted, meaning you set a goal for the conversation and choose your words accordingly. If you can’t picture a successful outcome, you can’t pick word to make it happen.
It’s important to see things as they are and then to picture them as you want them to be. If you can’t picture a perfect outcome, at least picture an improved one. Change comes in steps.
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