Muere Lentamente by Martha Medeiros
Those who become the slave of habit, who follow the same routes every day, who never change pace, who do not risk and change the color of their clothes, who do not speak and do not experience, die slowly.

Those who do not turn things on their head, who are unhappy at work, who do not risk certainty for uncertainty, thus to follow a dream, those who do not forego sound advice at least once in their lives, die slowly.
Those who do not travel, who do not read, who do not listen to music, who do not find grace in themselves, die slowly.
Those who slowly destroy their own self-esteem, who do not allow themselves to be helped, who spend days on end complaining about their bad luck, about the rain that never stops, die slowly.
Those who abandon a project before starting it, who fail to ask questions about subjects they don’t know, those who don’t reply when they are asked something they do know, die slowly.
Let’s try and avoid death in small doses, reminding ourselves that being alive requires an effort far greater than the simple fact of breathing. Only with ardent patience we reach a wonderful happiness.
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Author: Martha Medeiros, a Brazilian journalist and writer
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Martha’s original text is as follows
A morte Devagar
Morre lentamente quem não troca de idéias, não troca de discurso, evita as próprias contradições.
Morre lentamente quem vira escravo do hábito, repetindo todos os dias o mesmo trajeto e as mesmas compras no supermercado. Quem não troca de marca, não arrisca vestir uma cor nova, não dá papo para quem não conhece.
Morre lentamente quem faz da televisão o seu guru e seu parceiro diário. Muitos não podem comprar um livro ou uma entrada de cinema, mas muitos podem, e ainda assim alienam-se diante de um tubo de imagens que traz informação e entretenimento, mas que não deveria, mesmo com apenas 14 polegadas, ocupar tanto espaço em uma vida.
Morre lentamente quem evita uma paixão, quem prefere o preto no branco e os pingos nos is a um turbilhão de emoções indomáveis, justamente as que resgatam brilho nos olhos, sorrisos e soluços, coração aos tropeços, sentimentos.
Morre lentamente quem não vira a mesa quando está infeliz no trabalho, quem não arrisca o certo pelo incerto atrás de um sonho, quem não se permite, uma vez na vida, fugir dos conselhos sensatos.
Let’s try and avoid death in small doses, reminding ourselves that being alive requires an effort far greater than the simple fact of breathing. -Martha Medeiros Share on XMorre lentamente quem não viaja, quem não lê, quem não ouve música, quem não acha graça de si mesmo.
Morre lentamente quem destrói seu amor-próprio. Pode ser depressão, que é doença séria e requer ajuda profissional. Então fenece a cada dia quem não se deixa ajudar.
Morre lentamente quem não trabalha e quem não estuda, e na maioria das vezes isso não é opção e, sim, destino: então um governo omisso pode matar lentamente uma boa parcela da população.
Morre lentamente quem passa os dias queixando-se da má sorte ou da chuva incessante, desistindo de um projeto antes de iniciá-lo, não perguntando sobre um assunto que desconhece e não respondendo quando lhe indagam o que sabe.
Morre muita gente lentamente, e esta é a morte mais ingrata e traiçoeira, pois, quando ela se aproxima de verdade, aí já estamos muito destreinados para percorrer o pouco tempo restante.
Que amanhã, portanto, demore muito para ser o nosso dia. Já que não podemos evitar um final repentino, que ao menos evitemos a morte em suaves prestações, lembrando sempre que estar vivo exige um esforço bem maior do que simplesmente respirar.
Martha Medeiros
Quarta-feira, 1º de novembro de 2000
Jornal Zero Hora
When literally translated, it reads like this…
Death slowly
Slowly those who do not exchange ideas, do not exchange discourse, avoid their own contradictions.
Slowly die who becomes a slave of habit, repeating the same route and the same purchases in the supermarket every day. Those who do not change brands, do not risk wearing a new color, do not chat to those who do not know.
Slowly die who makes television his guru and his daily partner. Many can’t buy a book or a movie ticket, but many can, and yet alienate themselves in front of a tube of images that brings information and entertainment, but which should not, even at just 14 inches, take up so much space in one. life.

Slowly die who does not turn the tables when he is unhappy at work, who does not risk the uncertainty behind a dream, who does not allow himself, once in his life, to escape from wise advice.
Slowly die who does not travel, who does not read, who does not listen to music, who does not make fun of himself.
Die slowly who destroys your self-esteem. It can be depression, which is serious illness and requires professional help. Then it fades every day who does not let help.
Those who do not work and who do not study slowly die, and most of the time this is not an option but a destiny: so an omissive government can slowly kill a good portion of the population.
Those who spend their days complaining slowly about bad luck or incessant rain, slowly giving up a project before starting it, not asking about a subject they do not know and not answering when asked what they know.
Many people die slowly, and this is the most ungrateful and treacherous death, because by the time she gets really close, we are already too untrained to go through the little time left.
May tomorrow therefore take too long to be our day. Since we cannot avoid a sudden ending, let us at least avoid death in gentle installments, always remembering that being alive requires a far greater effort than simply breathing.
Martha Medeiros
Wednesday, November 1, 2000
Zero Hora Newspaper
What Could Help You Live More Fully?
Inspired by the message of Muere Lentamente, this eight-question quiz explores how you approach change, courage, connection and everyday living. Discover which area might benefit most from a little more attention and identify one practical step you can take.
Your Personal Reflection
Your answers suggest an area that may be especially helpful to focus on right now. This is a reflection exercise, not a fixed description of who you are. You can draw on all four approaches as your circumstances and priorities change.
The Curious Explorer
You may feel most alive when you are learning, questioning assumptions and discovering perspectives beyond your familiar world. Curiosity helps keep life interesting because it invites you to look again at things you may have started taking for granted.
You do not need to travel far or make dramatic changes to introduce something new. A different book, an unfamiliar subject, a conversation with someone whose experiences differ from yours or a willingness to reconsider an old opinion can all open up fresh possibilities.
Choose one thing you have been curious about but have not explored. Spend 15 minutes learning about it this week. Notice whether it sparks another question, idea or possibility.
The free 179 Forward Steps ebook offers life power tips to help you look at everyday situations from fresh angles. Choose one idea that interests you and consider how it might add something useful to your life.
Want to explore another aspect of your personal growth? Try a different activity from the Personal Growth Quizzes collection.
The Courageous Step-Taker
You may be ready to make a change, pursue a dream or address something that has been sitting on your mind. Your answers suggest that courage could be a useful focus. Courage does not mean being fearless or taking unnecessary risks. It means being willing to move forward thoughtfully when the outcome is not completely certain.
It can be tempting to wait until you feel entirely ready. Yet some decisions become clearer only after you begin. A small, considered action can help you learn what is possible without requiring you to have everything worked out in advance.
Write down one action you have been postponing. Identify the smallest sensible step you could take towards it, then decide when you will begin. You do not have to solve the whole problem today.
The free 179 Forward Steps ebook can provide practical inspiration when you need a fresh perspective or a nudge towards positive action. Browse the tips and select one that fits the change you want to make.
If you would like to reflect on another area where a small decision could make a difference, explore the Personal Growth Quizzes page.
The Meaningful Connector
You may place particular value on genuine relationships, open conversations and the willingness to give and receive support. Connection reminds us that life is not just about what we accomplish individually. It is also shaped by the understanding, kindness and shared experiences we exchange with others.
Sometimes connection begins with a small gesture. Asking a thoughtful question, listening without rushing to respond, expressing appreciation or admitting that you could use a little help can strengthen a relationship. You do not need to know everyone or be the most outgoing person in the room to build meaningful connections.
Think of someone you would like to connect with more meaningfully. Contact them, ask how they are really doing or share something you have appreciated about them. If you need support yourself, consider one person you could approach.
The free 179 Forward Steps ebook gives you a collection of practical ideas to reflect on and apply in everyday life. Look for a tip that could help you bring more thoughtfulness, understanding or positive intention to your interactions.
For another opportunity to reflect on your choices and relationships, take a look at the Personal Growth Quizzes collection.
The Joyful Life-Bringer
You may benefit most from making more room for enjoyment, passion, creativity and the experiences that make an ordinary day feel worthwhile. The message of Muere Lentamente reminds us that life is more than simply completing tasks and repeating routines. Music, laughter, meaningful interests and moments of delight can all help us feel more engaged with the life we are living.
You do not have to be cheerful every day or turn every interest into an achievement. Nor does enjoying life mean ignoring genuine difficulties. It can simply mean allowing worthwhile experiences to have a place alongside your responsibilities, even when that place is small.
Make a short list of three things that bring you pleasure or help you feel engaged. Choose one and give it a little time this week. If you cannot do what you once enjoyed in the same way, consider a simpler or different version.
The free 179 Forward Steps ebook offers positive life power tips that can help you bring fresh intention to your days. Choose a tip that appeals to you and turn it into one small action you can enjoy or put into practice.
Keep your self-reflection going with another activity from the Personal Growth Quizzes page. You may discover another useful idea for making everyday life more fulfilling.
Explore This Idea Further
Optional prompts to help you make the ideas your own.
I use AI as a thinking companion, not as a replacement for my own thinking. These prompts are simply another way to explore the ideas in this article and see how they might apply to your own life.
You don’t have to use AI to benefit from them. You can copy a prompt into a notebook, write about it in your journal, talk it through with someone you trust or simply sit with the question and see what comes up for you. If you do use ChatGPT or another AI tool, treat its responses as a starting point for your own thinking.
You remain the person who decides what is useful and right for your life.
How to use these prompts: Choose the one that appeals to you, copy the complete prompt and paste it into ChatGPT or another AI tool. You can answer its questions and continue the conversation as you go.
1. Apply This To My Life
Use this prompt when you want to recognise where you may be missing out on life by postponing the things that matter to you.
Help me recognise where I may be missing out on life because I keep postponing the things that matter to me. Use the Forward Steps article “Muere Lentamente by Martha Medeiros” as your primary source. Focus on the poem’s message about the danger of living on autopilot, resisting change, neglecting our interests and relationships, and continually putting off experiences that could make life more meaningful.
First, ask me what I have been postponing, what I wish I had more time or courage to do, and what currently makes me feel engaged with life. Help me connect my answers to the poem’s message and identify where a small shift in my choices could bring more meaning, enjoyment or connection into my everyday life.
Offer thoughtful, practical suggestions that fit my circumstances rather than telling me to make dramatic changes. Ask one or two questions at a time and build on my answers. Help me decide what matters to me personally instead of assuming that everyone needs the same kind of life.
2. Reflect More Deeply
Use this prompt when you want to examine whether your daily life reflects the things that make you feel truly alive.
Help me examine whether my daily life reflects the things that make me feel truly alive. Use the Forward Steps article “Muere Lentamente by Martha Medeiros” as your primary source. Stay grounded in the poem’s themes of breaking free from repetitive habits, remaining curious, expressing feelings, pursuing dreams, learning, enjoying music and travel, valuing ourselves and allowing others to help us.
Invite me to consider which parts of the poem speak most strongly to me and why. Help me explore whether I have become too comfortable with familiar routines, avoided something meaningful because it feels uncertain, stopped asking questions or allowed complaints and disappointments to overshadow what I can still enjoy or change.
Ask thoughtful questions one or two at a time and respond to what I share. Help me notice patterns, reconsider assumptions and recognise opportunities I may have overlooked. Don’t assume that every routine is bad or that everyone can afford to travel, change jobs or follow every dream. Keep the reflection compassionate and realistic, respecting the circumstances and limitations of my life.
3. Turn It Into Action
Use this prompt when you want to take one realistic step towards something meaningful that you have been postponing or neglecting.
Help me bring more curiosity, feeling and meaningful experience into my everyday life by choosing one thing I have been postponing or neglecting. Use the Forward Steps article “Muere Lentamente by Martha Medeiros” as your primary source. Focus on the poem’s encouragement to break unhelpful routines, pursue worthwhile dreams, keep learning, enjoy life’s experiences, care for our self-esteem and accept help when we need it.
First, ask me what I miss doing, what I would like to try, which project I have put aside or what part of my life needs more attention. Help me choose something that genuinely matters to me and is realistic within my current circumstances.
Then help me make a simple plan with one small first step, a practical time to take it and a way to build on it if it feels worthwhile. This might mean starting a postponed project, reading something interesting, reconnecting with someone, making time for music or a favourite activity, asking for help or trying a different approach to an everyday routine.
Keep the plan manageable and avoid suggesting that I must change my whole life. Ask questions as needed, build on my answers and help me adjust the plan if obstacles arise. Encourage me to make room for what matters, one achievable step at a time.
Tip: You don’t have to use all three. Start with the one that feels most useful to you right now.




